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Siobhan, you're so real! Honestly, I can relate to so many things you say.

You're right, even today having to apply for any sort of benefit is really soul destroying they make you feel like a failure and go through your personal life with a fine, tooth, comb. My son has autism and the way the job centre would talk to me had me in tears, they didn't understand that I had to be available for my Son until he had a better understanding of his emotions so a job was going to be hard to keep "well, Miss Perrior are you going to be coming here each week until you retire" 😏 As if anyone would want to (as you put it correctly yourself) beg a complete stranger for money, baring your soul at the same time...

"Where's your sons father?" - You're literally a number to them...a "Lazy Number" in their eyes.

After (again) getting told off on Instagram by a warning its made me brain storm other creative outlets to help with my Jewellery Making (which seems to offend Instagram for some reason 😅.) So this is the weekly pick me up I needed!

Ps. I read the first few lines, stopped and went to make myself a cup of tea 🍵 🙃

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